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A marriage records search can be very valuable when looking into someone’s past. It is often amazing how many people will lie about having ever been married and it causes major problems down the road in a relationship.  As a Private Investigator I handle cases everyday with people looking for all types of public records including divorce records, marriage records and even birth records. There are a few problems or misconceptions associated with these records that this article will discuss.

Problem #1: Where are they actually?

This is a little known fact but these types of records are physically stored in many different places. They are usually housed in the Office of Vital Statistics or a court district in any given state or city. Marriage records are usually in the town they were filed in (this could be where the couple got married OR where one of them lived at the time).  

Problem #2: Can I Please Get a Copy?

Even if you do manage to track them down they usually only provide certified copies to the bride, groom or next of kin. This can be quite challenging for you after you have done all the work to track them down. Keep in mind I have found that each office has its own set of rules; some make them up as they go along so it is always worth a shot to make a nice phone call. Always ask them to explain the procedure they use to release public records. The good news is if you do not need a certified copy there are other ways.

Solution: Marriage Records Search Online you say?

Sure, isn’t everything online these days? Ok, that is not entirely true but this route is by far the quickest and easiest when doing a marriage records search.  There are public records databases that have either indexed a lot of the public information out there or they have purchased lists of documents and where they are located. This is a great starting point and a amazing way to stop wasting time.  

Before you begin rejoicing I would like to say that there are tons of so called marriage records databases and we have tried most of them. There is only one that we consistently use. The rest have very poor databases and often give no results. Be cautions when selecting one as these records are not usually that easy to get.

Use the only marriage records search we use! Investigative Site Reviews will give you the best public records databases that will save you hours of searching the wrong sites. Mike personally uses and approves these sites.

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Marriage is not easy, no two people will get along 100% of the time it’s just not human nature to live with someone and not disagree some of the time. Lasting marriages require compromising and picking your battles wisely.

My parents have been married 50 years and now that I am older I look back and can remember the many compromises they made, they rarely fought in front of us but I saw when one parent absolutely would not budge on something the other would give in. These compromises are necessary to keep the peace and stay together. It cannot be one sided, in other words one person can’t be right ALL of the time and never budge. There are little annoying things you just have to “live” with, you cannot completely change another person. Generally speaking there should be more good than bad things and those are the reasons you married your spouse in the first place.

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